Again, lds.org is a wonderful source of solace and wisdom. A quote from Elder Jeffrey R. Holland: "Everything in the gospel teaches us that we can change if we need to, that we can be helped if we truly want it, that we can be made whole, whatever the problems of the past."

Ironic that I came across this after my post from a few hours ago. Well, I might not be able to change or help or make others whole, but I can make sure that I am submissive to these changes myself; that I accept help from others when I need it; that I'm teachable and loveable and that while I reach out and serve others, I allow others to reach out and serve me.